It can be tough dealing with the stubborn girl who refuses to admit she’s wrong at times and refuses to take help form anyone. The Stubborn girl really is the independent girl. There are certain qualities and traits that we have that may be tough to swallow at first but I promise you, we’re worth the time.
1) We don’t like to be told we’re wrong.
I would tread lightly when deciding to tell us that we’re wrong. Even if you know for a fact that you’re correct and we’re not, it’s still borderline if you should say something. We’ll argue till we’re blue in the face that we’re right because we don’t like being told we’re wrong. It’s automatic for us to get defensive when we’re told we’re wrong.
2) We just don’t like to be wrong in general.
We will usually go to battle with the answers we come up with. So when we realize we’re wrong we won’t be the first to admit it. We don’t like being wrong and will make sure gather all of our facts before starting a debate with you. Though we will admit it, if there’s enough proof and it will be extremely hard for us to do this. Which leads to the fact we don’t learn the first time. It generally takes a few times for us to get it right or realize we’re wrong because we don’t like to be wrong.
3) We apologize a lot.
When we’ve hurt someone or we’re wrong we own up to it. We have this issue of saying sorry over and over again because we’re first to be hard on ourselves and want to make sure that you know we truly are sorry.
4) We put all of our emotions into everything.
We have this problem of diving into everything without dipping our toes in sometimes. We have big hearts and we want to share that with everyone so we put all of our emotions into whatever we do. Work, relationships, friendships activities etc. At times it may seem like much but we’re not trying to be difficult, it’s just who we are in nature.
5) We don’t like to be taken care of, especially when we’ve been drinking.
We may be walking in a zigzag line and the words we’re saying may make absolutely no sense. Though we don’t want you to take care of us, it’s like losing a little bit of your independence and we don’t like to have to rely on anyone for anything. When clearly this is a moment that leaning on someone is a great idea, we’re going to tell you we’re just fine and try to do everything on our own. Keep trying eventually we’ll give in, or our mumbling telling you no will be taken as a yes.
6) We worry.
We do this a lot. We worry if we’re too over the top at times, or if we’re not doing enough to show we’re interested. We worry about life, love, work, school, family and every little thing in between.
7) We overthink everything.
This stems from the worrying. We overthink everything because we don’t take advice easily and we like to figure things out on our own. Our brain tries to get ten steps ahead of us and sometimes that leads to overthinking. We can take something so small and make it seem so much worse because we have issues with slowing down.
8) We’re loyal.
When we decide that you’re an important person in our lives, we’re always going to be there for you. Whether we haven’t talked in months, or we just talked ten minutes ago, you need us we’ll be there. Loyalty is so hard to come by and we want those close to us to know that there is at least one person in your corner at all times. When it gets tough we don’t throw in the towel.
9) We like a challenge.
The more difficult the situation the more we’re up to the challenge. We don’t like life easy, we like to work for the things we have and we’re proud of it. Whether it’s flag football, trivia or getting the guy that thinks he’s unworthy of a relationship we’re up for it.
10) We don’t conform.
We’re not going to change the things we do because someone doesn’t like it or it doesn’t fit in with society. We aren’t like every other girl out there. We know what we want, we go after it, and we refuse to let anything stand in our way. Some people may roll their eyes at us and ask us why we have to be so stubborn and well, because it’s just simply in our blood.
Admit it, life’s a little more fun with the sassy stubborn girl, if you’re willing to take the risk.